[ Scarlett takes a moment or two, to really think about her answer. Giving it the weight that was eared by respect, regardless of Mary's age. She'd fared better than plenty of people who had arrived in their group. ]

It's been my experience that people who want to call the shots aren't the best leaders. It's the ones who want to help but not lead that should be in charge. [ She glances at Mary, a wry half-grin touching her lips. ] Kinda messed up, huh?